I used to think fatherhood was about providing.

I thought fatherhood was about discipline. I thought good intentions were enough. I thought saying “I love you” mattered more than making sure my children felt it.

Over the years, fatherhood has humbled me. I’ve experienced it in nearly every season—from raising adult children, to becoming a stepdad, to parenting a young son and welcoming a newborn.

I haven’t done everything right. I’ve missed moments. I’ve lost my patience. I’ve had to look my children in the eyes and say, “I’m sorry.”

And I’m still learning.

That’s why Dear Dads exists: not because I have all the answers, but because none of us were meant to figure this out alone.